I couldn’t be happier that you are here exploring options for your future emotional health and mental, physical, and spiritual wellness. It takes a great desire to make a leap into becoming your truest, most powerful self.
I once sat with a potential client who was on the verge of committing to her health when suddenly she broke down and started to cry. I was taken aback and asked what was wrong. She hid her face under the collar of her t-shirt and said through her tears, “This is so scary for me because I don’t know who I will become. I’ve never been healthy so I don’t know if I can maintain this new person I say I want to be. What if I can’t do it?”
Therein lies the wisdom of God. It won’t be a shock when you realize the behavior of your true self and the intellect of your mind and the intelligence in your heart all match because it won’t happen overnight. You will have to put in the practice and the time to break old patterns and shift limiting beliefs. In nothing less than a year, with consistent presence of mind, you will slowly but palpably change for the better. You will be very aware you have become who you said you wanted to be and it will be a permanent change, I promise!
When I was in the beginning stages of letting go of my childhood baggage, one of my grown daughters made the comment, “We don’t even know who you are anymore. You’re not the mother who raised us!” My question back to her was, “Isn’t that a good thing?”
She thoughtfully contemplated my questions while my consistent improvement stood the test of time. I can attest that all of my children would now concur, YES, it is a very good thing! They trust I can be a mother and a mentor because I have become an emotionally safe place for them to express themselves without my own false beliefs getting in the way of their own processes and progress.
This kind of change doesn’t have a destination. It has an eternal growth pattern. We’re not looking for perfection. After all, we’ll never get it all done in this life. We are however looking for mastery of awareness. In the beginning, all it takes is a desire to do better to be better. I can guide you through the steps after that. No guesswork. No failed attempts. If the desire is in your heart to align yourself with your true purpose for being here, this work is for you. Your ‘desire’ is the key indicator you can do it and you will be successful through daily practice and steady progress!
I am a self-proclaimed pattern-breaker. I’ve had to be. I know what it is to struggle with who I know I am and what others have needed me to be. My mission in life is to break the negative and harmful generational patterns and flip the trajectory of my heritage. It is also my intention to help you do the same. You will be a mentor much longer than you will do your mothering. It’s never too late to become the one your posterity can look to know a better way to align with their own personal mission.
It is my conviction that it only matters who we become along the journey. There is no timeline for discovering who you are and what you want out of life. And, no one is coming to save you. You are the one you’ve been waiting for to dive in and experience true freedom of self-expression. When you rise up to meet your true potential as a daughter of God, you will bring others along with you as you fulfill the measure of our creation. That is the reason you are here, and I love you for it!
Warmest appreciation for your good heart,